What is Tantra Yoni Massage? Yoni is a Sanskrit word for the vagina, and Tantra's yoni massage is a way to feel yoni and massage from the perspective of love and respect.

The purpose of this massage is not to achieve orgasm [although it can and does be a welcome side effect] it is more about learning to give and receive, trust, inconvenience, relaxation, pleasure, combination and enjoyment.

Sexual therapists and professional massage therapists can use this technique to help women break through barriers or trauma.

How to massage Tantra Yoni

Step 1 – Preparation – It is recommended that the receiver empty the bladder to prevent any discomfort. Then let her lie on her back, knees, hips and head pillows to let her see her partner and what is happening. You can enjoy a massage at the bed, on the massage table or in the relaxing area.

Step 2 – Breathing – It is very important that the giver and the recipient take a deep breath, relax and breathe slowly before giving the massage. If she stops or begins to breathe lightly, the giver should alert the recipient at any stage, which can be done by breathing loudly instead of speaking.

Step 3 – Massage – sit between the receiver legs using high quality oil [try to avoid aromatherapy oil] and warm to body temperature under hot water, start using long continuous flow and round massage to massage the stomach, breasts, legs and thigh. This allows the receiver to relax more and allow the recipient to explore and enjoy the touch and feel. Try to keep eye contact and make the connection deeper.

Step 4 – Yoni Massage – Pour a little oil on the mound above the yoni and let it drip and cover the sides. Slowly, gently is the key to start massaging the mound and yoni outside. Using your right thumb and forefinger, gently squeeze the outer lip one at a time, then slide the length up and down. Look at each other's eyes to measure any adjustments or repetitions to increase the fun. Listen to the receiver and observe all the visual signs that will guide you, keep it to a minimum or better not to talk.

Step 5 – Crown Gem – Gently stroke the clitoris with your thumb and forefinger in a clockwise and counterclockwise direction, then gently squeeze. Watch your breath and take a deep breath. With the middle finger, put your palms up, gently massage slowly, cultivate, relax, and explore the interior of yoni.

Step 6 – G point – This can be found by bending the middle finger back to the palm of your hand. Under the pubic bone, you will feel a spongy tissue area. Observe the eyes of the receiver and change the movement, speed and pressure to maximize the fun.

Step 7 – Total fun – You can also insert a finger between the little finger and the middle finger to increase the stimuli. The thumb can be used to massage the clitoris and yoni outside. The little finger can be used to gently massage around the anus [visit when or not the visual sign is continued]. At the same time, massage the abdomen and breasts with your left hand and caress with a gentle flow. Always looking at each other's eyes and breathing slowly. Sometimes emotional release occurs, gentle and keep breathing.

Step 8 – Finish Closing – Respectfully, slowly and gently remove your hand, and when she is ready, hold each other's hugs of love.

Tantra Yoni massage in 8 easy steps was originally published on Spring