The purpose of this article is to motivate therapists and people suffering from phobia or any other problem to "pain." I believe that people will not have depression, people can be frustrated; people can't have anorexia, people can eat disorderly; people can't have phobia, people may behave very scared. These behaviors cannot be purchased at the store; they cannot be picked up by others. We choose [whether consciously or unconsciously] to be depressed, to eat, to eat phobias, and only when we can accept this, we realize that, as we choose to solve problems, we can now choose to change.

For some people, any form of phobia can have a lasting effect on their lives. No matter how unreasonable they seem, they are serious problems for the victims.

Freda from Cambridge [UK] is a good example. When she was in her 40s, she was a smart woman who had suffered a lifetime of phobia, and the country’s dog population now exceeds 7 million, and her every day is affected.

Freda was forced to live only in places where dogs were not allowed and would never enter any Cambridge parks or public areas.

She even thought that the dog's body reaction was very serious. Physical symptoms include palpitations, sweating and excessive ventilation. Although there is no real allergy, the physical impact on her body is extensive and destructive.

For the past 20 years, she has been seeking help from a range of professionals including psychologists, CBT therapists and doctors. All forms of treatment include drug treatment failure. She has seen five hypnotist therapists. The last one she went to in 2002 “sold” her 28 courses, charged her £1,500, and told her that she was four unhelpful people in the UK. One! This person should not practice, not because of a lack of results, but because of the number of sessions and the restrictive belief that he "installed" the diagnosis in Freda's mind.

Freda asked me to help her because her best friend, one of my clients, persuaded her to "give me a chance." Because of the above facts, when Freda asked me to help her, she hardly hoped that the treatment would work, so we must first solve some restrictive beliefs before we can actively do any "change work."

The result of less than 90 minutes in the treatment room is that Freda not only can pass through the park, look at the dog, but also meet a few dogs.

After the second intensive training, she touched a larger dog and arranged to walk the dog with her friend, saying that she now completely controls her phobia.

Freda was very worried that the lift and the phobia of the dog also enabled her to ride comfortably in the elevator.

What did I do? What is special about the treatment model I use? Ok, although I want to tell you that there are magical powers and wands in my pocket, the reality is that traditional psychology, the combination of NLP [neural programming] and hypnosis is a must.

I first analyzed the problem and then found out if the root cause of the problem was enough to relieve the phobia. Freda has no conscious memory of any events that might cause the problem, so I decided to use some NLP "techniques" before using hypnosis itself. Moreover, the "technology" employed is simply an NLP concept that is tailored to the specific personality and requirements of the subject. The therapist must understand that there are no such things as scripts; these scripts are created by you using the knowledge and expertise in your discipline and adapting them to specific customers to create the most beneficial changes. Everyone is different, the script stays the same, so it doesn't work for everyone.

After establishing some of the foundations for change, including Freda's responsibility for her behavior and thus realizing that she was capable of changing, I used association techniques and many “anchors” at the first meeting [which allowed Freda to touch a few Only a few days later, a quick hypnosis session to give Freda self-belief and control her mind. This allows Freda not only to stay comfortable with the dog, but also to actively seek opportunities [intelligently at risk by approaching random dogs] to interact with and interact with the dog. Freda is now free. She left her friend's dog. She walked through the park and she was responsible for her life.

So if you engage in an act that you think you can't control and want to change, I believe you can change. Believe that you can be the person you want to be, because you really can. Seek professional advice and take responsibility and you will change.

Nine of the 10 therapists will not accept customers like Freda, and they may think that they are another failure in Freda's book. If you think you can help your customers change what you can really do; by firmly believing in your abilities, experiences and aspirations, you will make large-scale changes to people; changes that scripts cannot make. These changes can only help you with your enthusiasm, knowledge, experience and beliefs. Of course, research and experience are very important and in fact essential; but once you have these skills, rely on your skills rather than scripts or statistics.

An "incurable" phobia was originally published on Spring