If it is not because of anxiety, those guys will get more.

why?

Laying is normal. Any normal man will start talking to any ordinary girl, and soon they will think about jumping into the sack.

It is very difficult for humans to wire in this way. That's why we have seven billion people on this huge rock.

Not long ago, there were only a few million. just now? Seven billion.

See, human beings are good at making more humans.

This is natural. look around. There are a lot of people around, right? This is not always the case. There were only a few hands full of us.

We are stinky and never take a shower. Now we are everywhere. Some of us even wear clothes!

You can say that we have been exposed to sex.

Of course, if you never approach her and start talking, this will never happen.

You really don't need any memory mode [but they will help] or a super ninja opening [but they will help].

What you really need to do is to walk in front of her and don't panic when you start talking.

Humanity will begin to be natural from there. Of course, you won't beat every girl you say "hello", but you certainly won't beat any girl you don't say hello.

Correct?

So how do you overcome the initial anxiety?

imagination.

Now, I am not talking about sitting in your room at night. If you can only get the girl you want, imagine what life will look like.

I am talking about specific, targeted imaginations, and you can do something reasonably the next day based on what you did on that day.

Just like you see some cute girls, but can't find the courage to talk to her. Reproduce that reality in your imagination. Rewrite your personal history.

In fact, remember this incident because you actually talked to her. Don't go too far. Don't turn even numbers into some kind of erotic fantasy.

Just rewrite it to do this reasonably. Imagine you went to talk to her for two minutes, and you all smiled and enjoyed the conversation.

Imagine it from all angles. Imagine feeling really good emotions.

What you are doing is reprogramming your brain to succeed. The more you do, the more likely it is to happen in real life.

Just need a real event, actually happen, and then rewrite it every night. It is natural to approach the girl soon, not scary.

How to use self hypnosis to eliminate proximity anxiety was originally published on Spring